BYF type thing
we wanted this seperate from the "things of note" page just because it felt right. we do NOT have a true dni, really. if we do not gel with you / do not think we would, we will just block instead.
we tend to block very, very liberally, on that note. it is rarely personal. if it Is, you would definitely be aware of it, to be very honest.
THAT BEING SAID...
we really do not care about 99% of online lgbt discourse. we are Not radinclus, but we arent rly exclusionists either and really hate having terminology pushed onto us about this. it is not really our business how one labels their identity and we aknowledge that identity is often not these neat, perfect boxes one always fits into. if you arent obnoxious about shit / constantly discoursing, youre fine, live your life. if u make us read "kink at pride bad" one more time we will explode for real irl. also xenogenders are cool as fuck.
we are very, very wary of pro-para things, and prefer to not have that around us. tolerance of (yes, even non-contact) pedophilia, incest, bestiality, ageplay will lead to an INSTANT block, no exceptions.
we cannot be around ageplay or incest-based kink (esp between siblings), even if "only fictional" or used as a coping mechanism. that is a hard rule that will not budge.
we REEEEEally do not vibe with empty spaces / dollposting / "traumaqueer" whatever stuff. the worldbuild part was cool before it became people talking about wanting to be groomed and abused like its cute. yes, even if it is coping.
if you interact with / are friends with moonlitazure (tumblr) / vermillionshift or vermilliontrigger (twitter), you should leave us alone.